After years of seeing the same unhealthy patterns show up in my personal relationships, I decided I was ready to go about them in another way. After much reflection, I realized that I was the common denominator in all of the equations of my personal relationships and circumstances that I didn't like. I knew from [...]
Tag: sexuality
Sex Education 103: Sacred Sexuality
What do you think of when you hear the words Sacred Sexuality? For starters, you don't need to be an expert in tantra, yoga, spirituality, or whatever else comes to mind to practice or understand sacred sexuality. I'm neither and none. My experience and focus in the sexuality realm with over a decade in the [...]
Connecting the Dots of In-Authenticity
The way way you do one thing can teach you how you do everything. I've been going through this process of distinguishing the Self from the body and the mind. In this process, I've come to discover a lot about my Self and the way I've created my personality. As we travel through space and [...]
The Seeking Stripper: I Surrender
Stripper There was heaviness on the word "stripper". The connotation was massive. Eleven years of collective massiveness. It's appropriate to say that stripping has left a huge impact on my life, and comprehending it's impact has been quite the process in itself. Looking back, I see the timeline of this stripping path actually began when [...]
Finding Love On The Road
True Love Determined to find the love of my life, I openly share my desires with friends and strangers alike. Some people meet me with confusion and others curiosity. The question I often ask myself is, "How will I know when I meet my beloved?" While on the road, I was met by a man [...]
Surrendering Into Love
The Beginning Of The End I notice myself unconsciously begin to lay pieces of me to rest. Graveyards become appealing and the wonderment of death obscures my thoughts. I've been through this process before. My body knows what it's doing and I see what's happening. I'm mourning, again. I'm here in Hawaii, roaming along the [...]
Convergence
Convergence: Coming together of two seemingly separate ideas, concepts, or entities. I've been a witness to this process as it has been an intention of mine. The amount of challenge has been plenty. Yet through the pain and the tears, I see a glimmer of light and my faith in the process. Loving myself through [...]
Redefining Love
Love used to be all consuming. Chaotic and unpredictable. Pain was inevitable. Heartbreak was common. Love was dependent on the other to return that love. Being in love meant being lost, having fallen so far from myself. Being in love meant losing touch with my wholeness and becoming one with another. Being in love meant [...]
Reclaiming Sexual Power
Power Leak A power leak is when there is no focus in the action, thoughts and behaviors. When the cycle of energetic exchange is blocked and nothing beneficial is received in return for the giving of energy. It is a drain on the resource and as humans, we literally have to continue replenishing it [...]
The Frequency of Love
I'm in the place of awareness of old patterns and have the beautiful opportunity to begin anew. I've been here before. Declaring I see myself. Declaring I see my patterns and truth. I stir with anxiousness, unwilling at first to look at whats poking me in the back. Finally, I choose to sit with it. [...]