When we stop pandering in the realm of separation, our sexuality stops being something outside of ourselves and we can really step into a world of play. When a deep seated repression of a pivotal part of who we are as humans is avoided and denied through generations of shame, there is a dark cloud [...]
Tag: Healing
Manifestation Ritual: Calling In Your Beloved
After years of seeing the same unhealthy patterns show up in my personal relationships, I decided I was ready to go about them in another way. After much reflection, I realized that I was the common denominator in all of the equations of my personal relationships and circumstances that I didn't like. I knew from [...]
Sex Education 103: Sacred Sexuality
What do you think of when you hear the words Sacred Sexuality? For starters, you don't need to be an expert in tantra, yoga, spirituality, or whatever else comes to mind to practice or understand sacred sexuality. I'm neither and none. My experience and focus in the sexuality realm with over a decade in the [...]
The Seeking Stripper: I Surrender
Stripper There was heaviness on the word "stripper". The connotation was massive. Eleven years of collective massiveness. It's appropriate to say that stripping has left a huge impact on my life, and comprehending it's impact has been quite the process in itself. Looking back, I see the timeline of this stripping path actually began when [...]
Reclaiming Sexual Power
Power Leak A power leak is when there is no focus in the action, thoughts and behaviors. When the cycle of energetic exchange is blocked and nothing beneficial is received in return for the giving of energy. It is a drain on the resource and as humans, we literally have to continue replenishing it [...]
Universal Truth
From the age of 9, I can remember being looked at as a sexual creature. I was hit on by older men, assuming I was at least 18. Cat calls bombarded me as I'd walk down the street in my saggy pants and beanie-chosen to avoid the hoots and hollers. When I was 12 years old, I [...]
Healing My Inner Masculine Part 2
Looking at all my relationships up until this point in my life, I’m left recognizing patterns and seeing where I’ve made dramatic shifts when new people come into my life. I see the work I’ve been doing, but how is this moment any different than the past? I feel like my life is more full [...]
In Transition
Being in this state of transition has prompted many unfoldings of my path. It’s been 10 years since I started dancing. I’m not sure when I decided I was mentally done, but it feels like too long. It’s been a year since I graduated with my BA. It’s been a year since going to Burning [...]
Rituals For Resistance
During all these shifts of awareness that I’ve been experiencing lately, I sometimes find myself locked in space. A space where I hold on tight to something that doesn’t serve me. I sit. I meddle. I ignore what the issue is. I know that I must look at it in order for it to go [...]
Ecstatic Soul Stripper 