LOVE MONEY Love money enough so that it sticks around. It's easy to love money, right? Wrong. We've all got outdated programming around money from our parents or caretakers. Beliefs around money run deep in our psyche and we get to flesh it out so we don't end up having the same relationship our parents [...]
Tag: feminism
Integration
Integration is a time of embodying the knowledge you learn. There are moments of awareness that peirce the current veil of reality, shattering the past and present into oblivion. As the shards of life settle into an unknown figuration, integration can occur. I've been away from the clubs for 2 years now. A lot has [...]
Manifestation Ritual: Calling In Your Beloved
After years of seeing the same unhealthy patterns show up in my personal relationships, I decided I was ready to go about them in another way. After much reflection, I realized that I was the common denominator in all of the equations of my personal relationships and circumstances that I didn't like. I knew from [...]
Full Moon: Healing the Feminine
As we are moving into this New Moon, I'm reflecting on opportunities for new growth, self love, accepting responsibility, and the life I've designed. In this, I begin to see barriers that are standing in my way of me feeling fully embodied, empowered and in my place of wisdom and truth. Feminine Sexuality Feminine [...]
On the Job Training: Transferrable Skills
Being a stripper in the clubs, I've been gifted the opportunity to hold space for strangers as they process emotions that include pain, grief, sorrow, despair, guilt, shame, sadness that expresses in a variety of ways. The most important thing is that I listen. I listen with compassion and without the intent to resolve their [...]
Concomitant Trauma At Work
Causing Trauma I take extreme responsibility for my life. Although other people are part of this experience, I take charge in what it is that I have power to do and say. Working in the strip club has allowed me the opportunity to do the work to find healing and empowerment. This idea of causing [...]
Passivity to Passionate
What does it mean to feminine? Socially constructed feminine image destroys true passion.
10 Important Inclinations
Going into dancing, I didn’t know who I was. I thought I knew, but really, I didn’t. I let outside events frustrate me, hurt me, and ultimately change me. Now, every day I focus on being me. The me that I know to be true. 1. Loving and supportive 2. Sensitive/empathetic towards others 3. Compassionate [...]
Universal Truth
From the age of 9, I can remember being looked at as a sexual creature. I was hit on by older men, assuming I was at least 18. Cat calls bombarded me as I'd walk down the street in my saggy pants and beanie-chosen to avoid the hoots and hollers. When I was 12 years old, I [...]
Freedom
It’s so wild going back and reading my old blogs and seeing how much I’ve changed. Knowing where I was mentally in that moment writing those words; living in a wavering place of comparison, fear, and confusion. I’m so grateful for the process I’ve gone through to bring me to this very moment of clarity [...]
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