Looking inward is easily ignored and forgotten, as it needs to be a persistent and conscious effort to nurture the inner world if we are to design the outer world of our dreams. The outer world is filled with people we call friends, family, co-workers, items we’ve purchased, items we were gifted, things we needed, [...]
Category: Empowerment
Birthdays are for Mothers
Birthdays have taken on a whole new meaning now that I'm a mother. I celebrate both the child and the one who birthed said child. For centuries, mothers have been nurturing life that becomes fully grown humans. Whether those humans are of good character- we won't get into that topic. Today I celebrate my birthday. [...]
Stripper Tip #14
YOUR BIG "WHY" What's motivating you from day to day? A small "why" doesn't have sustaining power when it comes to big goals. A small why's motivating power doesn't outlast the achievement of the object of desire. Successful people have a BIG WHY and all the other "why" fall under that. Understanding your BIG WHY [...]
STRIPPER TIP #13
$1,000,000 It's easy to say, I want $1,000,000. Can you say it? If you can, can you tell me what you'll do with it once it makes it's way to you? You've got to know why you want that money. It needs a purpose, otherwise it won't come to you. You've got to woo money [...]
Stripper Tip #12
SELF LOVE The biggest gift you can take away from this job besides wealth is self love. You'll find conversations happening looking at the other woman in the mirror as you both put your makeup on. There's an easy opportunity to miss with the mirror being in front of you so often. What can bypass [...]
Sexuality is Innocent
What happens when you have a goal and no agenda to get there? FREEDOM. EXPANSION. LIBERATION. This is the exact same result when we apply it to sex.
Sacred Play
When we stop pandering in the realm of separation, our sexuality stops being something outside of ourselves and we can really step into a world of play. When a deep seated repression of a pivotal part of who we are as humans is avoided and denied through generations of shame, there is a dark cloud [...]
Stripper Tip #11

BE PERSISTENT Your mind unchecked is a sure path down into the pits of hell. Be persistent with your thoughts. With the negativity literally everywhere, it's easy to get caught up in the mentality of blaming the external world for your discomfort. It's okay to feel shitty, just own it! When you own your emotional [...]
Stripper Tip #7
HIRE A MENTOR OR COACH Life goes by in a blink of an eye. So what are you doing in that life? Will you be proud of what you've done as you take your last breath? Think about it? What do you want to accomplish beyond making money? Do you have what it takes to [...]
Pleasure is our Birthright
By the power of patriarchy and fear, we are torn in half through the ringer of society. Our sexuality gets separated from our whole selves and we go looking for it out in the world, when in reality it's right here inside of us. PLEASURE IS OUR BIRTHRIGHT. We were all born into this world [...]