Fuck Normal Sex, I Want Transcendent Sex.

Damn this shit gets crazy sometimes; knowing when I’m awake and when I’m not, I just can’t tell that easily anymore.

It all seems to blend together.

Luckily, I have the bedroom activities to help me wake the fuck up back to my life.

Talking about sex and intimacy is my favorite past time that brings me fully into the present moment.

I get the opportunity to get raw, real and passionate.

We get to ask each other questions about STD testing, if we really think it’s a good idea to have unprotected sex right now because I’m ovulating and I really don’t want a baby, whether we’re going to project our pain onto each other or whether we’re going to actively participate in our healing journey and have sex that will open us both up into more expansive love, or whether we both want something physically intimate, but not quite sex.

There is so much to discover in this conversation and it’s worth the initial discomfort, I tell you what!

It literally took me (I officially started having sex at 16 years old, now I’m 31…) 15 years to figure this out to the extent that I do now.

I know, I know, you already have this conversation all the time, right?

You two consciously made the agreement to have sex because it was something that you both wanted?

Oh, you mean you’ve been with your partner for how many years and you’ve never discussed what sex means to either of you?

All right, well let’s change things up a bit!

Take your next breath and go talk to your lover about how much you enjoy making love to them because it makes you feel like a Goddess/or a God if you’re a male reader.

If you don’t feel like a Goddess/God, we’ve got some more work to do.

You have the power to be embodied fully in your sexy self.

We are humans with the universe coursing through our cells and we’re built for this.

Living a life with a lackluster sex life isn’t for you.

You deserve to orgasm that lasts for days on end.

You deserve to live the life of your choosing.

You are worthy of your own attention and love that allows your sexuality room to play and explore it’s depth of power.

If you aren’t having the most epic sex right now, it’s time to have a talk with your partner.

If you’re experiencing pain with sex, it’s time to talk about it.

If you’re experiencing insecurities about sex, it’s time to talk about it.

It’s time to get authentically real about sex.

Flush out the surface things and get into the nitty gritty.

Really get into it.

Take your time and go where you have never gone before.

Sit through the uncomfortable moments with compassion for yourself and your partner.

Maybe you’re not ready to share with your partner;  get your gears going and think about this stuff alone, with a trusted friend or a professional.

It’s amazing to think that some of these things have NEVER been heard by a pair of ears before.

It’s absurd to think that these things go unmentioned for so long, it’s no wonder our WORLD is suffering so much pain from this repression of sexuality.

Speaking about our sexuality, healing our wounds from this life time and lifetimes past will be the key to unlocking the healing of the earth.

When we can begin to recognize we have shared pain in the realm of sexuality, we can begin to heal together.

When we heal ourselves, we heal the collective.

We’ll begin the process of empowering one another to look out for each others’ well being.

We’re in this together.

We’re all one.

Let’s thrive in pleasure.